Before we began Bible study, Pastor Don said that TBN has sent his program into a larger market, that now covers Staten Island and Queens, so his sermons now reach 890,000 houses. Praise God for that. You may want to see if you can see him Tuesday at 3AM or Thursday at 12:30 PM, then you can hear the Sunday sermon. If you see Pastor Don on TBN let him know by emailing him or let me know, it would be cool to know who on Xanga has that opportunity. You can find a link to In His Name Ministries on the left side of my blog. If you can’t see him on TBN, there are a few taped sermons online under “Say Amen” that you can watch online, you have to go to the section that says “Teaching Series” to get to the Say Amen screen that lets you play the recordings..
Pastor Don wanted to get through a good portion of Luke 17, but this was one of those Bible studies where the topic touched chords in many present, and people shared from their hearts perceived offenses they have received, and it became a Bible study of great soul searching. Truly the Word came alive for many at this study.
The first section of Luke 17 deals with offense, and the second portion deals with faith and demonstrates how to do great miracles. If you don’t see miracles in your life you are not being honest about how you are fulfilling the requirements to enter into the supernatural.
When you step into the role of Discipleship, it will cost you, for people will get offended. When that happens a level of forgiveness is required.
Luke 17:1 Then He said to the disciples, “It is impossible that no offenses should come, but woe to him through whom they do come!”
It is impossible to not offend or be offended- people are going to get offended, it can happen purposefully or circumstantially.
Luke 17:2 It would be better for him if a millstone were hung around his neck, and he were thrown into the sea, than that he should offend one of these little ones.
The previous chapters show many miracles, and in them Jesus talks to His disciples about not hurting little ones. Pastor Don said that we can assume one of two things, either something happened where little children were not treated properly or else Jesus is directing his comments to His disciples and followers, who would be viewed as Jesus’ spiritual children.
Remember, discipleship has different levels, we have babies, teenagers, young adults, adults, and fully mature disciples. So often there is an error made in the church when a baby disciple assumes that another member of the church is fully mature, but in reality, although the member has been in the church for many years, they are still teenagers in Spirit.
Just because a person has attained a certain physical age or a particular church office does not mean that they are fully mature, they may be mature in many areas, but childish in others. You can be fully mature, and still have a juvenile or baby moment in your life.
There are also people in the church that are trying to survive on yesterday’s manna. While going to church on Sunday is good, those who make the effort to attend Bible studies during the week and seek further knowledge will grow faster than those who only attend a few hours on Sunday.
As a disciple we need to get out of “ME” and realize that it is about God, and that often when things are in conflict is when ministry happens. When someone offends you, don’t stagnate in your growth, know what area of the flesh is still operating that lets you get offended. We need to crucify our flesh, to die daily to ourselves.
Pastor Don pointed out that we need Bible Study, Worship, and Praise and Worship. Yet many people come late to service, avoid the Bible study, come for praise and worship and then leave. You will starve to death on just praise and worship. For praise and worship to sustain you, you need to know the Bible, not just the Psalms. Then the Word that is within the praise and worship will stir up the Bible that is within you and make it a greater praise and worship.
The Spirit of God is a helper to help us identify error, if we don’t know that we don’t know something, we may not understand why a teaching by a false teacher, or a prayer given by someone who is out of order makes us uncomfortable.
An example was given about a person who found a book on the Bible, and read it through, started praying the prayer that was recommended and her household went into chaos. Two sisters from our church went to her house and talked with her, she showed them the book and they read the text and it all seemed Biblical. They contacted Pastor Don, and he had them read the prayer, and that was where the error was, the prayer was reversed – the prayer asked God to bind up the good stuff, loose the bad stuff. Which is the reverse of what should be done. The author thought that you needed to bind the good stuff to keep it with you, and cut loose the bad stuff. The author did not know the laws of binding and loosing, that you bind the bad things to keep them from being acted on, and you loose the good into your life to fill the void where the bad stuff was. When the woman was told the correct prayer her household went back together.
We have to be careful about what we read and take in, and question anything that does not seem Biblical. That is why it is important to be sitting under the teaching of a pastor who rightly divides the Word of Truth (the Bible).
The only thing out of kilter in that book was the prayer, but it was enough to cause damage. Remember that satan will act that way, tell mostly the truth with a tiny lie, which pulls us off the path of God. All it takes is a tiny veer in direction to pull you further and further away from truth. That is why the New Age is so insidious, they teach Biblically sounding principles and then throw in a few lies. The Course of Miracles sounds so Biblical until you get to the middle of it and find out that they tell you that you are God. You are not God.
Back to the Spirit of Offense. In order to discern if there is a spirit of offense two things have to occur: 1. that they have offended me and 2. I have opened my heart to be offended.
Remember, it is easy for us to get offended just because we thought that someone offended us, when they had no intention of doing so.
Some people in church perceive an offense and refuse to talk to someone for weeks or decide to leave the church because of the offense – rather than bringing their feelings out into the open and clearing up the situation.
Pastor Don gave the example of a woman who was in the church lobby on a Sunday. He walked past her, into his office to get his Bible and papers, and then into the sanctuary to pray before church started. He did not say “hi” to the woman and she took offense. She wrote him a nasty letter. When he called her, he listened to her story, and told her that quite truthfully there were lots and lots of people in the lobby, his mind was on the last minute details of the church service, and he honestly did not see her. He also told her that he would gladly have greeted her if she had come up to him later. She held onto the offense and left the church.
This brought up a round of discussion about perceived offenses of similar nature. Some were hurt for not being recognized by Pastor Don at times. Pastor Don pointed out the same thing, that if someone needs a hug from him to come and ask. That he sometimes is thinking about one thing and walks right by a person. Sometimes, with some of the people he is actually testing to see if they will get offended by him not greeting them – those are the ones he is considering promoting in the church and needs to know the state of how much they are acting in the flesh.
Pastor Don pointed out that evaluating people on the basis of what you didn’t get when you were little just leaves you open for devil bait. To assume that, because a person doesn’t speak to you, that they love you less than they will 20 years form now is a wrong way to think. Pastor Don said that we have to evaluate the situation that makes us feel rejected, and then take some steps to break down the wall. That, as time goes by, we have to not bring our old hurts into the situation. We have to come up with new responses to the old hurts. And he pointed out that if you are feeling hurt for not being noticed, come up to the person and ask them for a hug or a greeting. The wrong reaction to perceived rejection can lead to sin.
Then Pastor Don went on to talk about the person who deliberately goes out of their way to give offense, and likens that to premeditated murder, wanting to hurt someone because you know you can. We also fall into the mind-set that if someone offended me, dish it back to them, thinking how can I hurt them because they hurt me.
Pastor Don said that if he feels he offended a person, he goes to the person immediately, for it is not good to let the offense grow. And if something has offended him, he seeks out the guidance of the Holy Spirit to understand why that situation was offensive.
We have been trained by life to be offended by the things that offend us. The flesh responds before the brain kicks in. So we have to figure out how to get past the Spirit of Offense.
If something offends you, there is a root of offense in you that usually indicates that there is an area where you still have to die to self in that area.
As a Believer, Jesus hits us with, whether it is intended or perceived, or pre-meditated, our response to the offense has to be that we have no right to close our heart or shut down. We need to have compassion and love for the person. To forgive the person, love them, and not hold the sin of unforgiveness.
What the devil meant for evil, I will turn to good.
Ephesians 4:25-27 Therefore, putting away lying, “Let each one of you speak truth with his neighbor,” for we are members of one another. “Be angry, and do not sin.” do not let the sun go down on your wrath, nor give place to the devil.
There is a righteous anger, for there are things that are offensive – things that are not Godly. Pastor Don says that he is offended by the news media. We, as the Body of Christ, are often exposed to the same gory details day after day, the same old grind through the News Media. When an actress gets drunk, a person acts wrong, we see the same story day after day after day.
People who go out of their way to be offensive and destructive do not please God, for they are not promoting a ministry of forgiveness. The book of Romans speaks about forgiveness, and we need to practice not getting offended.
The Jews had it right, they got together at the temple and were free to argue and debate topics from every walk of life. They talked about politics, sex, religion. We, in the church do not always do that, we don’t talk about concrete things and try and figure out what the Lord says regarding the topics. It is not offensive to disagree with a person’s theology, but it is far better to share the scriptures and see what God has to say about a topic – the whole of the scriptures, not just a few selected passages pulled out of context.
Luke 17:3 Take heed to yourselves. If your brother sins against you rebuke him; and if he repents, forgive him.
Notice that if there is repentance forgiveness follows. We wait until people ask us for forgiveness when we are offended, but often we haven’t shared with them (rebuked) that we were offended. People aren’t mind-readers and many offend without knowing that they have done so. Rebuke does not mean slap a person down or shame them, it means to state the case to them, tell them what you perceive they have done wrong. What God says about it. We are to go to the brother or sister and get it out into the open, then when repentance occurs, when the situation is cleared up, forgive and move on. We need to forgive even if we don’t “Feel” like it. And also to ask for forgiveness from someone we have offended, even if they refuse to forgive us, we still sincerely ask.
The problem is that we had better be sure that an offense was intended, not just perceived. If we rebuke a person in error and feel that they owe us an apology, we don’t want to do so in error. If we are uncertain, it is important to get a second opinion, but make sure you seek the opinion from someone who will tell you God’s truth about the situation, not just what you want to hear. (Heather’s note, not a gossiper either).
When it comes to forgiveness, we can take the high road of forgiveness or the low road and refuse to forgive the offended. Jesus wants us to take the high road.
There are situations when a person has blatantly, fully offended you and did it on purpose in front of witnesses, with intent to do damage, and you know that they are not going to repent, then you forgive them, and leave it up to God to handle the situation.
Mark 11:25-26 And whenever you stand praying, if you have anything against anyone, forgive him, that your Father in heaven may also forgive you your trespasses. But if you do not forgive, neither will your Father in heaven forgive your trespasses.
We need to take the whole situation to God, and let Him deal with it. Let God’s vengeance deal with it, but in your heart you have to forgive them. If you don’t you are in bondage to that person. God wants us free.
I have to tell you that a few of my friends and myself have had full experiences in the area of offenses this week, sort of like homework. I can tell you that I still have much work to do in this area, for sometimes my skin is way too thin and my feelings get hurt too easily. I am praying that I learn this lesson and get past it.
Hoping you have a blessed night!
Heather

