June 1, 2006

  • Heather’s soapbox: I have been reading Mark Buchanan’s book, Your God is Too Safe. A few quotes hit home and I wanted to share them with you. The first has to be the source of so much of the denominationalism. I am constantly amazed by the bitter fighting that occurs because of what each denomination feels is the truth. I suspect that all denominations have much truth, and a few inaccuracies. We are being refined and as we allow God to work in our lives we will line up more and more with truth. What I have noticed among Christians is the desire to take pot shots at denominations that have missed the mark, dig in the trenches and not dialogue. It is true, we don’t want lies about Christ spread, but at the same time the real battle is not about an erroneous thought, the real battle is satan and I suspect that as he wanders to and fro on this earth he is getting a good chuckle that Christians are doing his work for him. While we are to espouse the truth, it must be done in love. If it is done from a point of self-righteousness no communication can occur and only bitterness will grow.


    Here is the Buchanan quote that sparked my soapbox.


    P. 111 “Whole theologies hinge on the smallest words. John Stott says that the heart of theological language is in the prepositions – in, of, with, to. As. Split that word open and out spills an entire philosophy and strategy of missions and ethics. Where do we get our power? To whom we are to go? What should we say? How then shall we live? As the Father has sent Me, I am sending you….”


    Earlier in the chapter Buchanan was asking teens to define Christianity and their response was telling. p. 110 “A Christian is someone who doesn’t smoke, doesn’t drink or do drugs, doesn’t have sex until marriage, doesn’t use bad language. Of course. I am not suggesting that a Christian does these things. But it’s tragic that we instinctively define Christians by what they are not, by what they avoid. It’s like being asked to draw a picture of someone and instead of drawing everything around the person and leaving the portrait blank.”


    And on the same page: “We are known by our fruits, not by our lack of tree fungus or leaf rot.”


    I want to be known by my fruit, and I pray to God that I never succumb to the spirit of legalism.


    On a bright note I wanted to let you know that I did complete Breaking Free by Beth Moore and I have to encourage you to consider doing the study. We made a list of strongholds. Many feel that strongholds are those very powerful ones like abuse, addictions, etc. But as we become refined in Christ strongholds can be self-righteousness, unforgiveness, worry, etc. We will be refined by God of all strongholds, large and small, if we are open to Him.


    I came home after the study and cried. God gave me one of the most remarkable gifts yesterday. First of all, He made sure that I was a leader of a small group – hard not to fully involve yourself in the lessons if you are to lead others, so I couldn’t skim over the tough stuff, and the responsibility kept me coming back even though there were points in the book that made me want to quit the study or gloss over the material. Then I was talking to the facilitator, and shared a bit with her of what God was doing regarding the abuse I received in my past, and someone told me that they overheard what I was saying, so I told her a bit about my past. She gave me a card yesterday and told me that because of my sharing with her, she broke free from a stronghold that had been tormenting her.


    If that wasn’t enough, people in the group kept commenting that they remembered me when I walked into the group 2 1/2 years ago, and how far God has grown me. And constantly came up to me and said that I had done well. The facilitator wrote me a wonderful note telling me that I had done so well, that God helped me to really do what was necessary for such a hard study. And then last night when I sat down to read the Bible, out fell another note from someone in my small group thanking me. She must have put it in my Bible when I wasn’t looking.


    I cried so hard because this is such a proof that what satan meant for harm, God turned to good. To think that the dross of my life reached out and touched so many people was such a confirmation of the work God has done in my life. I count myself so blessed and immediately prayed that God keep using me however He wants. I love Him so much.


    Have a blessed day, I get to go and visit Pastor Don’s mom. She is delightful and fun to visit. I sit with her on Thursday mornings.


    Heather

Comments (19)

  • Last night at choir practice, I was asked to do the God With Us recitation for an upcoming Sunday morning service…..very similar to your last post.  I memorized this over 7 years ago after hearing it recited at another church.  When the one reciting finished the Old Testament, I was in tears and when he began the New Testament, I could hardly contain myself.  God laid it on my heart so mightily….and said, “Now you”. I had not tried to memorize something that extensive in years, but it came easily and I was asked to recite it in public worship many times, even at other churches.   Then suddenly, as so many people had started to compliment ME and my heart was in the performance, not the worship, He took it away from me….not just a few lines…all of it. Every morning I tried to say it as I drove to work and could not… until last week and it came so easily as I was cooking supper and I just repeated it with no hesitation.  I worshiped with it every day this week…and then last night….well, you understand.  It is all God.

  • Breaking Free is a wonderful study….very cleansing! Loved it!  It was my first Beth Moore study to do!  

  • Sounds like an interesting book! I am so proud of you Heather!!! God bless you! You didnt water the study even tho it was tempting to quit or glossy it, you didnt and shared your heart with others and look what happen it free up someone else! Praise the Lord, for the footsteps he does have us take, and then bring us around others that need what we have!

  • Praise God, Heather, for I’ve read posts talking about times you wondered whether you were “worth anything” or not.  Now you can know not only does God love you, He can use you to help others.  And that’s the most “usefulness” any of us can EVER hope for:)    For whatever reason God chose not to intervene early in your life, the timing and results of when He DID intervene are amazing, and I bet you He knew the end from the beginning.  I know what you went through was horrid, but wow, isn’t it worth it if it helps bring even one soul closer to the Lord?  Not that one would ask for such a thing, mind you…  but the fruit borne of it with God using it, is amazing.  God bless you and may He show you even more and more how much you are cherished and “useful” in His hands.  Love, Gerrie

  • How wonderful for people to share with you the changes they see happening in you….we need that.

    Have a blessed day!

    Michele

  • That’s what making lemonade out of lemons is all about! I am so happy for you and proud of you for taking a stance and sharing with others! You are an amazing women…it is so nice when others give you a pat on the back…especially when you are not expecting it. Kinda helps keep you plugging on!

    God bless!

  • Praise GOD amen.. I wasnt  in a group as my old church you had to be invited and if you werent you didnt go. But God brought me through a lot of healing from my abuse by reading his word and soaking in it and learning what he had to say about me.. The scripture I like the most is

    when he said you are a new creation the old is past away be whole. : )

    Thanks for the posting.. God bless you…

  • “I suspect that all denominations have much truth, and a few inaccuracies.”

    i disagree, i suspect that they have much inaccuracies and few truth. it’s like the jewish faith when Jesus came and walked the earth, the rabbis and the pharisees know just about every little bits about the jewish scriptures and the laws and every little bit of the faith, afterall they’re the “best of the best”… all except 1 thing, and that one thing is the only thing that counts.

    likewise, the very notion these denominations allowed themselves to be separated indicates they’re missing the bigger picture, if not the biggest picture. and what most are not aware is that like breaking of a glacier, the denominations are drifting farther apart. any attempt for unity in this modern age is with “tolerance” or accepting the differences the best they can, instead of “resolving” the difference by comforming back to the fundamental truth.

    in short, we care so much about remodeling our homes, adding a new garage, repainting a room, adding a skylight, etc… that we have not take notice the foundation is rotting away.

  • my the Lord continue to use you powerfully in reshaping the foundation of your small group as well as others. as the sermon from last sunday said “we need more PHD in the church”; PHD – Physician of Deity

  • Heather, this is so good.  Yes, we will know them by their fruits.  Amen, amen.

    I understand how you feel and the fresh release you have received through the encouragement of others.  I know the Lord has used me in ways I never, never thought I would be used in.  God uses broken vessels, in this way, His Light can shine through. : )   This past year I was in Walmart and it was one of those days, one of my parents had given me a hard time that day.  A beautiful saint of God came to me in the store and started ministering to my soul, God gave him the ability to peer right in my soul.  I did not know the man, never had seen him before but he was right on the money in detail.  I  went to my car and cried tears of joy, God’s compassions, they fail not.  He is the perfect Father isn’t He?  : )

    ~Amelia

  • I agree about denominationalism. Great testimony how God is using the bad that happened to you, to now bless others.

    Larry

  • “the real battle is satan and I suspect that as he wanders to and fro on this earth he is getting a good chuckle that Christians are doing his work for him.”

    I completely agree. I am suspicious that while some think they are doing God’s work by making lists of heretics and heresies – supposing that Satan is trying to use those heretics and heresies to infiltrate the church – I think Satan is smarter than that. Why be blatant? Why not distract Christians from the real work of justice, mercy, humility, servanthood, and life change with something that has no effect on their personal godliness whatsoever?

    It is my fervent hope that we will all be thoroughly surprised by those who end up in heaven – and that most of our denominational differences can be boiled down to a good chuckle.

    Great thoughts.

  • “Your God is Too Small” is also a great little book.

    Great entry, Heather!

    BE blessed!
    Steve

  • “But as we become refined in Christ strongholds can be self-righteousness, unforgiveness, worry, etc. We will be refined by God of all strongholds, large and small, if we are open to Him.”  In my own experience, I have seen so many times where a Christian’s unforgiving attitude has driven away unbelievers on the brink of making a commitment.  It’s tragic.  I pray that I will never lose sight that ALL have sinned and fall short of the Glory of God.

  • AWESOME POST!  Thank you!

  • Thank you for such a wonderful post! I went through years of addiction, only to find that God was preparing me for helping others. Your post has blessed my day. Thank you! God bless!

  • Great post Heather!  I was brought up in Christ in a fundamentalist church and unfortunately it made me very judgmental and that’s a very hard sin to break!  But thanks be to God, who gives us the victory through our Lord Jesus Christ. 1 Corinthians 15:57

    One day at a time sweet Jesus
    That’s all I’m asking from you.
    Just give me the strength
    To do everyday what I have to do.
    Yesterday’s gone sweet Jesus
    And tomorrow may never be mine.
    Lord help me today, show me the way
    One day at a time.

  • I thank God for leading me to your blog. Your words really ministered to me.  After 13 years of walking with Christ, I’ve dabbled in so many different denominations that I”m absolutely confused at times and want to give up the whole church experience. I feel like I’ve been in a long season of recovering and restoring my first love with Jesus and it’s been quite a process of getting all the rest of the junk and inconsistances out of my head.

    I appreciate what you got out of the Beth Moore study too because I owned the book but never finished and didn’t want to work through the hard stuff and didn’t have the accountability with a group either.  I’m at a point now of having the opportunity to glorify God with my testimony to help young people learn from my mistakes, but it’s beens such a hard thing to forgive myself for that I’m hiding and not wanting to come out with my story. Does that make sense?  I’m not sure what to do and how much of my self to expose. Any suggestions? thanks, debra

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